Sunday, February 26, 2012

Week 3

Week three of being a mom...

I feel like I'm settling into things, and baby an I are getting used to each other. I am learning to live with less sleep. I feel a bit like I'm stuck in the house, because every time we go out it is a big ordeal, and I worry constantly about the baby getting hungry and having to feed her in public. I hope that hesitation will eventually go away, because I don't think its fair for moms to have to hide themselves in bathroom stalls or cars just because they need to feed their kids. For me its mostly mental, I don't think people actually care that much, especially if you use a blanket. Anyways, we are getting the hang of things like bath time, etc. but its a learning process for sure. We went to Sacrament Meeting for the second time today. I am so grateful for our clever car seat cover that has a plastic window so people can see the baby, but I don't have to always be telling people not to touch her.

Second Sunday outfit

Saturday, February 18, 2012

Delivery- Getting it done with half an epidural

So eventually a doctor came in to break my water, after which what my pain level quickly rose from moderate to intense. Now at this point I told them I was ready for an epidural whenever they were ready to give me one. I have a lot of respect for moms who have natural births but as for me, I just wanted to be as relaxed as possible during this process.  The anesthesiologist came in to give me the epidural. She was awesome and it hardly hurt at all. I could feel it working right away but for some reason it was working a lot better on my left side than my right. I told the nurse and she propped me so that more of the would reach my right side. Then Nathan and I both went to sleep.

I woke up as the nurses came in to check on me, and everyone seemed to think I still had a few hours to kill. So when I began to feel contractions again, this time only on my right side, I didn't think much of it beyond calling the nurse and pushing the little button for more medication. My left side was like a dead fish still, but my right side felt pretty much fully functional. The nurse came in a rolled me all the way to my right side so that gravity could help me get more medication. She decided to check me even though she said I probably still had at least two hours to go.

Much to our surprise our little one was already one her way out. The nurse told me not to push unless we wanted her to deliver the baby. So as we waited for the Dr. to show up I tried really hard to resist the increasingly strong urges of my body. Finally, in walks the Dr. He introduced himself sat down, and 6 minutes later out pops a little human! I was so overwhelmed by the whole thing I don't think I could even begin to process what was happening.

I am so grateful for the Dr. and nurses and the great care they gave us, and that everything went so smoothly. Now we have a beautiful baby girl, Clara Lynn Wecker. She was born at 6:45 am, she weighed 6 lbs. 12 oz. and she was 19 inches long. She is a true miracle and blessing in our lives!

Wednesday, February 15, 2012

Labor - the false alarm that turned out to be true

I went to the hospital fully expecting to be sent back home. You see, I thought maybe the was a slight chance my water had broken and I wanted to have them check (water breaking is not always a huge gush like on movies, sometimes its a trickle) . So we went to the hospital. I was begining to feel uncomfortable but I fully expected to be sent home. They ran a test to check if my water had broken, and it came back negative. The nurse said that I was probably heading home. We sat in the little exam room for about and hour wondering why it was taking them so long to tell us to take a hike...

The nurse eventually came back, saying that since my contractions were regular and strong, they wanted to watch me for a few hours. I thought that we would just have to hang out a bit longer, then they would send me home. It wasn't until they came to inform me that they were going to go ahead and induce labor that I realized that I wasn't going home anytime soon. I still couldn't tell why they decided to induce. My doctor was out of town, and what doctor would voluntary take on an extra birth?

to be continued...

Sunday, February 12, 2012

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Saturday, February 11, 2012

Approximately 186 hours ago...



...we had a baby!


 Clara Lynn Wecker was born on February 4, 2012 at 6:45 am. She weighed 6lbs 12oz and measured 19 in long. 









Wednesday, February 1, 2012

Family Trees

So I realized the other day that I do not have the best grasp on my family history. I couldn't even tell you my grandmothers' maiden names... but I did find this cool website, Family Echo, that lets you create a virtual family tree for free. What I really like about this is it lets you add in some somewhat complicated relationships, which for me is a necessity because we have a lot of first and second marriages, half-children, and step family. Also, because it's virtual it can be as big and twisted as I want- I just click on a name to see the relationships branching off from it.